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Planning a Funeral During the Pandemic
Amidst the cataclysm of COVID-19 the world’s eyes have been opened to the unsung heroes that have always been around us. The first responders, frontline healthcare workers, grocery store workers, a...
Sunday, April 19, 2020
Funerals in the Time of Coronavirus: Thoughts for Families
Needless to say, the coronavirus pandemic of 2020 is a challenging time for everyone. But if someone you love has died, it is likely that the current social distancing orders and travel restriction...
Thursday, April 2, 2020
Grief... At a Distance
The grief journey in and of itself as we know, can be grueling. Now add to it, your loved ones live hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. I read many stories of loss at a distance in preparatio...
Wednesday, July 3, 2019
Supporting a loved one who is grieving: The Do’s & Don’ts
Grieving the death of someone we love, is one of the most difficult and challenging times we encounter in life. Those who have yet to experience an intimate loss like a parent, child, spouse or sib...
Tuesday, March 12, 2019
Dealing With Grief After A Bad Diagnosis
Life can be full of tragic events, but undoubtedly one of the more tragic events is being diagnosed with a life-limiting disease such as cancer. It's difficult enough to hear such a diagnosis for o...
Tuesday, February 26, 2019
Grief & Loneliness
Someone you deeply love recently passed away. The many preparations you tirelessly, but lovingly brought together for the funeral service, are now over. Maybe you lost your husband or wife of 50 ye...
Thursday, January 24, 2019
Losing a Loved One to Addiction; The Stigma of Society and a Path to Healing
Grieving the loss of a loved one is a difficult and painful process that takes time and coping skills to begin healing. Adding the element of loss by drug addiction complicates grief to survivors w...
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Previous Posts
Dealing with Grief & Sharing of Stories
It is within the first year following the death of a loved one (sometimes longer) that we are often stuck on the last images of them. Whether it be the vision as they passed on or at the funeral se...
STAFF SPOTLIGHT: Curtis Birthwright -Teacher, Coach, Funeral Assistant/Driver, with a Side of Greeter
And a big side of smiles… Curtis hands them out in healthy portions at a time when you may need some warmth. He takes his job as Greeter with great pride. Curtis admits, “I have been told that my s...
STAFF SPOTLIGHT: Norm Gerhard, Funeral Assistant & Scoutmaster
Norm! In true Cheers fashion we exuberantly call his name as Norm Gerhard strolls in the funeral home door. Yes, we do have our fun at the funeral home where appropriate!
Norm is one of our ...
John Harnischfeger, Funeral Assistant, Driver & Powerlifter
The stories behind the people that come to work at Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home are quite intriguing. Really! There are some fascinating stories. Who knew we would have a State and Nationa...
Rejuvenation
Spring is a gratifying time of year. It promises the beginning of warmer weather, new life and rejuvenation. With refreshed energy and a sense of possibility, Spring offers hope for restoration in ...
STAFF SPOTLIGHT: Debbie Valle, Funeral Assistant, Flower Runner & Grandmother
We are blessed by the extended team we have working here at Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home. Our outer ring staff are an invaluable mainstay and frankly many of them may be just as recognizab...
STAFF SPOTLIGHT: Bob Scarciotta, Funeral Assistant & Driver
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home employs many different people for many different jobs that are not only vital to the success of our business, but more so for serving our families to the best ...